Keeping their eyes to themselves and focussed is always a hard thing for men. Most of them have an odd habit to stare at the ‘other’ woman across the road. In this situation you are helpless and there is nothing much you can do. All women have been there at some point or the other. We have knowingly caught our better halves looking at someone else but nothing explains men and their wandering eyes.
Here is the science behind it:
To women, ogling doesn’t come naturally as of the expectation that men will come to them, rather than vice versa. While men, on the other hand, ogle as that’s how they are programmed. Ogling also activates pattern-matching in our head, which fuels our sense of beauty. This results in the release of the happy hormones i.e. endorphins which convince most men to ogle.
Testosterone is a huge factor too; guys have 6 times more of this libido hormone than women do. Researchers from The University of Columbia found that testosterone impairs the impulse-control region of the brain. In short, most guys likely look before they think.
With the scientific reasons leaning towards men but this doesn’t please their women much.
Below given are 4 ways in which you could handle your man:
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The Subtle Hint:
As tempting, it might be, avoid making your guy feel, he’s done something wrong. Don’t impulsively elbow him or give him “the nasty look”. By this, you could avoid an unnecessary argument and sow the seeds of insecurity
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Ignorance:
The lesser you give it attention, the better it is. For a simple reason being men are just happy with looking at it and forgetting the next second!
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The Funny Way:
Draw his attention to a below-the-line comment and warn him in the nicest ways. This is where he shifts all his focus to you again!
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Don’t accept lame excuses:
If you caught him red-handed, ask him to come up with ‘out of the world’ excuses to laugh this off
The sassy, beautiful or smart woman he just checked out will never begin to compete with the bond you have with your man. Just trust the emotional bond which took ages to nurture and doesn’t get hampered with just a look.
