So my boyfriend of a year and a half doesnt really like talking about the future, like us or anything, he says his ex messed him up.. because he dreamt big things for them and it didnt work out and i understand and respect that but sometimes i feel bad, like initially i didnt think about a future either but now after a year and a half, even if i jokingly say something like imma marry you, he kinda gets weird and laughs it off. dont get me wrong not like i want to marry him just tomorrow, its just id like to end up with him? and you know id like to hope? but he does neither almost. Sometimes i think hes too laidback and im always hustling so thats probably why we have diffrent approaches. the other day he said he doesnt see the future and i was very hurt. am i overreacting or is it a red flag?