This is for my twin brother, who is currently suffering from deep depression because of some of the experiences he has faced till now. I want an urgent help in this regards to bring him out of it and re-develop his self confidence.
- He has a lot of anger and aggression inside him. Probably I am too responsible for his this state.
However there is a very old history of our failures which might be a possible cause for this aggression. But the major reason which I am able to understand is, the REGRET of not utilising the time and resources and REGRET for not getting adequate support and Guidance in respect to the Career perspective. Also, there is a sense of discouragement that our father has retired and we are yet not settled and are unable to support our parents at their old age.
Although, He is a curious Mechanical Engineer who has an ambition to become a scientist in AeroSpace Domain. having a good base for his subject, yet he is unable to gain confidence to focus for his ambition.
Each day I have observed him talking with self over and over, repeating to him, about his failed steps and opportunities he had missed and also sometimes day dreaming about what he want to achieve and what he will do after that. But, as what I am able to see, this has somewhere developed obsession in him for achieving the only goal to be scientist, and he as lost all his confidence to make good amount of efforts to reach that dream. He nearly scares in taking any steps assuming it to be a failed step again.
Recent, he joined an organisation in a hope to be able to learn something new, which was working on some project which relates his interest for aerospace engineering, but there he was ill-treated by his manager. He was made to sit idle for nearly 10 Hours daily in an isolated environment and was forced to stay at office till late night without any work, sometimes with a little work. all his modes of communication with the manager were taken away and again he faced being lectured and discouragement for No reason.
Now, since he objected the ill-behaviour of his manager who eventually was abusing him "don't give me that f**k, I am paying you, you don't deserve to be here" and forcing him to work for nearly 16 hours a day and also calling on SUNDAYS, He was forcefully terminated within a Month, stating "Behavioural Issues" and incapability, despite the fact that, he was truly punctual with his office hours for which He started his day at 5:00 in the morning and was coming back at 11:30 at night. and was very quick in his work and has never left the work incomplete, also His pay was also not given to him.
Facing all these Issues, now all his senses are nearly hanged and he is unable to decide the next step and also I can see a lot of discouragement on his face with nearly NO Confidence at all. His appetite has also drastically reduced.
I Hereby, Request for a proper resolution to this problem, as I fear for him and his future.
Hoping for a resolution