Thank you for your revert ee1190455. My husband and I have been happily married for 10years. It was a love marriage. My husband, by nature, is an extremely understanding, emotionally very strong, broadminded and mature person. He is a good friend and someone who readily helps others. I am more impulsive, naive, emotional and juvenile. Few months back, my husband shared with me that few of his female work colleagues have been showing keen interest to have romantic relationships with him. Notice I have mentioned more than 1. But he has clearly refused them. Though he is broad minded, he knows his limits. He has probably flirted around with them initially, but harmless and casual. But apparently the women want to take it forward, though they are also married. When I expressed my discomfort with this, his justification is that he cannot stop other people from liking him, but he is clear that he is not encouraging it. He calls it purely platonic from his side and says he cannot block their numbers due to work commitments. I know that my husband will not cheat on me. I appreciate his honesty and all his efforts to ensure that I should not hurt myself emotionally. But he has blocked my access to his phone recently. He says he does not want me to unnecessarily probe and hurt myself more; but also admits that he continues to receive msgs but does not reply, unless it is work. I believe him. But negative thoughts, insecurities and jealousy keeps coming back. Somewhere my trust in him has shaken. After 10years of blind trust, now suddenly I am not able to accept a situation where the most important man in my life wants me to accept his platonic friendships, which are evidently platonic only from one-side. I want to rebuild trust in him but becomes difficult at times, and I break down. Please advise.
