I was married six months back. Initially everything was great. Also my wife is pregnant which is a great news for all of us.
Even after my marriage i always noticed that my wife didnt spoke much when my mom was there. She was happy around me but when ever my mom entered the room she kept quiet. She even never bothered much to have a bond with my mother.
On asking, she always said that things will get better by their own and i should give time on this matter. As time passed i didn't saw the bond getting better. There has been 3 Major fights that happened in last 3 Months , all of which has resulted in her going back to her parents house. There are two aspects to this:-
Firstly She tends to get angry on very little things and always shouting and Screaming, She also has gone into a Shock twice during such fights and becomes unconscious afterwards.
Secondly the attitude of her family Especially her Father is that he always blames me even if the fault is of her daughter. He never understands my point of view and just end the conversation by saying that its my job to handle both of them and provides no help on this matter.
She has fought with my mom twice and spoke some ill words too which is unbearable even for me, but looking at her condition we didnt said anything.
I have asked her many times that is she willing to stay with me, on which she always says yes. i have also told that i cannot leave my mother which she agrees.
I am really tired from this kind of atmosphere in my house, i want that they should get along well. Please advice me on this Matter.