I understand the situation you are going through is really tough at present and there are dilemmas which is making things worse. Hardeep, i can imagine that to keep the feelings intact and balance the situation on both sides requires a lot of efforts. I would like to ask you few question here;
- What triggered the disliking between both the families?
- Since you said that you are married for 12 years now, I would like to ask you how was the relationship then and now?
- You also expressed the incidence where your sister got humiliated, what has happened to lead the situation to worse?
I can understand these are alot of questions, but since you require the solution to cope up with the situation and your feelings. So, until we dig deep, we wont be able to go through the process. Therefore, i would request you to connect on chat so that we can discuss in deep.
Take care of yourself till then