Welcome to Your dost.You must awaken to the reality that these distance friendships are unreliable and sometimes not genuine, as they lack that spontaneity of personal interaction. However, I understand the undercurrents of your feelings ,and expectations that are threatened now. He may have genuine plans for establishing his career, to have a better life and may be weighing the likelihood of those being abandoned and scuttled by any precipitated action. This is the time to be emotionally mature, calm, self assured , reasonable, fair and practical, rather than lose control by emotions, fear, sentiments, anxiety and a runaway imagination. You now need to harness all your inner resources to find solutions and not harp on the problem. Just put yourself in his shoes and feel his position, and you will see that by his very response that he has other priorities right now. Creating any overwhelming emotional stress on him when he is on the threshold of executing his plan may not be in your interest. So I think you should instead discuss his plans, support him emotionally and in spirit and find ways to mutually conclude the story. Focus only on the solutions, be practical and assertive, and dont believe your thoughts and feelings. The mind is very mischievous and loves to tease you. SEE things as they are, be realistic and get hold of yourself and set aside unrealistic expectations. If you are a priority, he cares and is serious about you ,he will work towards reaching you. Wait and see what happens. Continue the same vibrations and let momentum build up. Dont take anything for granted, be realistic and in the present. Hope you find solutions soon. You will be hurt if you choose to be hurt and create the chemistry for it to pollute you. You have to be matured, maintain stability, be assertive and have hope. Work towards a solution only. Best of luck!!