How to stop comparing myself with others?

[vinay-detani_b18cse0]

Whenever I see someone better than me in money or looks or opportunities. Like he gets it so easily but why don't I get it? Why does this happens to me only?

[prasan-a-shedligeri]

It's okay to compare yourself to others and find opportunities to grow.

What you are feeling is a sense of inadequacy and dissatisfaction. This can be overcome with a little bit of effort. Every day try to write down things that you are lucky to have or experience. You can start with the basic things like food and shelter. Then you can go on to feel how lucky you are to have friends and family who are supportive etc.

Your friends and family love you for who you are. They don't ask you to get more money or have better looks. So, try to become a better friend for yourself, a friend who is non-judgemental and loves unconditionally.

There will be a lot of resources online on how to overcome dissatisfaction. I hope it helps.

P.S. Social media can be a major source of dissatisfaction. I would suggest that you limit its use in case you have been using it excessively.

[Shreyansh9372]

Just considering these 3 for now :

Opportunities : Let it flow, let time give you moments, try to focus at your opportunities, tho be it less or more sometimes than others. Think about those people not having it as much as you.

Money : Totally depends upon how you are going to grow and develop yourself. Believe in yourself, today they might be richer than you, some poorer than you. Think about them. Feel blessed and keep up improving yourself.

Look : This can improved too, but hurry not. Try to asl friends how to make yourself lool better, ask their tips about everything. Dont be shy. But look doesn't matter much, believe me. You can still be a hood person and joy of a group along with being average looking.

Don't worry man. There are many like you, like me, like us, think about it.