Getting Divorce from the childhood love

[needcounciling]

I loved a girl since I was 10 years old or so. I never realized when my crush matured to love.
I am 27 now. Got married to her this year but it was arranged by my parents. She never knew I used to like her because I never talked to her in school but came in touch via social media. She and her family never know that too. I never thought of no one but her for 15+years. Thought of telling her and surprising her nearly after 2 months of our marriage. After telling that I have loved her for 15 years she cried and told me she doesn't love me. She was forced to marry me because of family pressure and loves someone else. The guy is her college mate.
I am devastated. No matter how much did I try to convince and give her chance she wants divorce. Her parents and my parents tried to explain but its not working. She is not living with me anymore.
I can't let her go because she was the first and last person I loved

[sheetal-rajput-1kwux]

Hi

Thank you for writing your query to YD, it takes courage to seek help
I can sense the pain you are going through from your message and this indeed is a difficult phase for you. I can see in your message here that you did your best to make her stay and so both of your parents, but it is not working. I understand whatever happened is very unfortunate But when it comes to Relationship/ marriage, it is a two way street. No matter how hard you try and make efforts , but if the other person is determined in her decision, you can't make it work all by yourself.

Try to communicate with her , how she wants to proceed with this, if possible , you both can go for couple counselling and discuss it there.

You can also connect with experts in the platform, they will help.

Take care
Sheetal Rajput
Expert , YourDOST