I am 27 years old male.
I have an opportunity to go to Canada as a dependent spouse (if I decide to go ahead in this relationship). I know this girl is a long time friend and it is not as if I am considering this just to land Canada. She is studying there and she is also not a PR yet but after her education, she has a better chance to get PR than my current score. Note that she will also require 2–3 more years to get PR as per my understanding.
Also, this is not “we can’t live without each other” kind of scene. My major concern is that the current issues (poppulation, pollution etc ... list is long) of India is makind me worried for future.
My major concern is that if I will chose to go to Canada then my mom will be living alone here until I will be able to sponsor her PR. My father passed away few years back. And I am very my imotionally attached to her. I feel guilty even if I will think about leaving this county leaving her alone here.
Now I am having a very good job here in IT sector with good compensation (20 LPA) and work satisfaction. I am very comfortable with this job. More than compensation it’s work satisfaction which matters to me. So even if I will find some job in Canada I am not sure that I would be happy with “any random IT job”.
So apart from my concerns about my mother, uncertainty of getting job matching my caliber is also a concern.
Now my main concern is that I am right now more inclined to stay back in India. But a question keeps coming in my mind whether I am foolish to let go an opportunity to settle in a developed country.