Thank you for reaching out to the platform. You didn't mention your age and also I would want to know how long you both have been in relationship. If the relationship is new, it may take some time to understand each other and the expectations we have. Although, if this is a long pattern and you have always felt lack of emotional connect and bonding, you can talk and discuss about it.
If you need to talk in detail, you can connect with me or any other experts from the platform.