In the starting year of my bachelor's, I met a lot of people from different areas of the nation and even from abroad during our induction days. I became friends with many, some regular friends, some just a hi-bye kind of a thing. this one friend of mine was from Bhutan and I was particularly keen to know about that place more and more and whenever we met which was very less, I would ask her about her place and that whole time I would be just excited to know more just like a toddler in Disney world.
So anyways we used to chat a lot majorly initiated by me. Whenever I am friends with anyone I always tell them to be upfront with me.
So this friendship goes on and we are doing good, chatting through the days, once in a while i will just say that I share so much with you does it not bother you, you can say if it does, so she always assured me that I was no bother.
So now the friendship is over 2.5 years old, and now I know her considerably better.
A couple of weeks back we were talking over the phone, after hanging up and after a few hours later i thought that her voice was down, so I just check it with her and as it turned out she was down. She messaged me with you know yu are always great and that she was lucky to have me in her life and she shared what was going on.
Now just 3 weeks back she didn't want to talk, so I respected that, after a few days sent her a parcel by post, a light letter saying things that might cheer her up, a bar of chocolate and a hand sanitizer, the Corona had just started to spread that time in India. after she receives the package, she texts me that thanks for all of this but don't do stuff like these I don't like it. I say ok.
The next day she texts and ends the friendship. Upon asking what I conclude is that I was too much for her.
I don't get it after checking with her occasionally that if it's ok if that's ok or not, why did she do this
I don't understand.
Just like that, the friendship is over
If something bothers me about someone I'll tell them and try to fix it, If still, it doesn't work out then fine we can part ways but at least I tried to fix it.