Hope you are doing well,
I can understand that seeking attention and be wanting to get into relationships is a human tendency, but I think it is something that happens naturally and its only about the right time and right person you meet. Often we tend to compare ourselves with people around us but, I want you to know that every person is different and what others have is not necessary we do.
Sometimes we expect people to come and approach (ask us out) but we don't understand that maybe, they are also facing the same kind of fear as us. It's better we dig deep into what we want and if that is the right thing, we go for it rather then waiting for others to do so. I would suggest you come online and have a session with our experts and explore more on what your expectations are and how to cope with this situation.