{"id":7136,"date":"2016-04-23T14:11:24","date_gmt":"2016-04-23T08:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/?p=7136"},"modified":"2025-10-06T15:56:54","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T10:26:54","slug":"were-you-ever-harassed-here-are-some-shocking-stories-of-child-sex-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/2016\/04\/were-you-ever-harassed-here-are-some-shocking-stories-of-child-sex-abuse.html","title":{"rendered":"Were You Ever Harassed? Here Are Some Shocking Stories of Child Sex Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexual harassment does not happen only on lonely streets at 2 in the morning (Not that we are saying that is okay). Everything we knew about sexual harassment is challenged by the \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/wheniwas?f=tweets&amp;vertical=news&amp;src=hash\">Everyday Sexism\u2019 campaign<\/a> that is taking the internet by storm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/yourdost-blog-images.s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/23140128\/harassed-compressor2.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7144\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7144\" src=\"http:\/\/yourdost-blog-images.s3-ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/23140128\/harassed-compressor2.jpg\" alt=\"child sex abuse\" width=\"1000\" height=\"700\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexual harassment happens in our homes, within our schools and it is not that farfetched. Many, many men and women have been subject to sexual abuse \u2013 of varying degree, from being watched to being touched.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/wheniwas?f=tweets&amp;vertical=news&amp;src=hash\" target=\"_blank\">#WhenIWas<\/a> a little girl, I had to pass through a public playground to go to the school bus stop. At the playground, there were invariably these older, college boys playing hooky from class. They would whistle and catcall and sing lyrics of offensive songs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It got so bad that I started avoiding the playground and instead chose a longer route to get to the bus stop. It has been more than 12 years since then. But I still can\u2019t get myself to go anywhere near that playground. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Here are a few examples of people who have spoken up about their brush with sexual harassment in their childhood:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/wheniwas?src=hash\">#wheniwas<\/a> younger I was told to shout fire instead of rape because people are more likely to respond to fire<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 emma (@hxsho) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hxsho\/status\/722518051602739200\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/WhenIWas?src=hash\">#WhenIWas<\/a> 12 I was chased down the street by 2 fully grown men who &#8220;just wanted a kiss&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Rochelle (@rochelleasquith) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/rochelleasquith\/status\/722694617968336897\">April 20, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/WhenIWas?src=hash\">#WhenIWas<\/a> 13 we were told we had to wear vests under school shirts &#8220;no matter how hot it was&#8221; bc our bras were distracting male teachers<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nina Keen (@KeenNina) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/KeenNina\/status\/722468602025242625\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/WhenIWas?src=hash\">#WhenIWas<\/a> 6 the boys would pull my dress over my head and pull my underwear down. They were never punished because &#8220;boys will be boys&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Bri (@HospitableHippy) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/HospitableHippy\/status\/722486121817628674\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/WhenIWas?src=hash\">#WhenIWas<\/a> 17 I was told in court that theres no way I was raped as I wasnt deemed attractive by my rapist. Tell me we don&#8217;t need feminism.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 am (@_xalana) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/_xalana\/status\/722512682407104513\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/WhenIWas?src=hash\">#WhenIWas<\/a> 15 my friend was assaulted by her boyfriend&#8217;s friend. when she reported it, the first thing asked was &#8220;what were you wearing?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 christine. (@christyxcaverly) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/christyxcaverly\/status\/722511758758453248\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Wheniwas?src=hash\">#Wheniwas<\/a> in HS, I was sexually harassed. Counsellor told me to show school spirit: if offenders were suspended, the hockey team wld lose.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Permanent Side Eye (@sarahkerr81) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/sarahkerr81\/status\/722429184975507456\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/WhenIWas?src=hash\">#WhenIWas<\/a> younger, people would repeatedly ask my dad if he wished he could had a son instead of an only daughter<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 N\u00fcr (@noorkhawand1) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/noorkhawand1\/status\/722380444407169024\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/WhenIWas?src=hash\">#WhenIWas<\/a> 14 walking in school uniform 2 grown men lifted my skirt up from behind. 1 said to other &#8220;pink pants, thought so&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/EverydaySexism\">@EverydaySexism<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Lara (@chrysostomatic) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/chrysostomatic\/status\/722371063062085632\">April 19, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes immense courage to come out and speak openly, but in doing so half the battle is won. There is help out there that you can avail immediately. You could talk to experts at <a href=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com?yd_source=YDBlog&amp;yd_medium=InternalLinking&amp;yd_content=category:personal&amp;yd_campaign=ChildSexAbuse\" target=\"_blank\">YourDOST<\/a> anonymously and confidentially. <\/span><\/em><\/h2>\n<h2><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So no more bottling up &#8211; speak up, speak out!<\/span><\/em><\/h2>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" async=\"\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sexual harassment does not happen only on lonely streets at 2 in the morning (Not that we are saying that is okay). Everything we knew about sexual harassment is challenged by the \u2018Everyday Sexism\u2019 campaign that is taking the internet by storm. Sexual harassment happens in our homes, within our schools and it is not [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40,1,63],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7136","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-abuse","category-blog","category-sexual-abuse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7136","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7136"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7136\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35561,"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7136\/revisions\/35561"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7136"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7136"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7136"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}