{"id":5412,"date":"2016-08-29T12:08:09","date_gmt":"2016-08-29T06:38:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/?p=5412"},"modified":"2016-08-29T20:06:46","modified_gmt":"2016-08-29T14:36:46","slug":"importance-of-communication-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/importance-of-communication-in-love.html","title":{"rendered":"Importance of Communication In Love"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cLove doesn\u2019t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.., all the time, made new\u2026\u201d Amy E.Dean<\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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\u201cLove\u201d, a word which takes us into a fantasy world; \u201cLove\u201d, a feeling which gives us butterflies in our stomach.\u00a0 \u201cLove\u201d, a beautiful relationship between two people. We feel the hardest task is to find someone who will love us with all their heart; but when we find someone like that, we are sure of living life like a fairy tale, right? The truth is, it is easy to fall in love, but what is difficult is to maintain that love, which if done, will continue to give us that feeling of fluttering butterflies inside us.<\/p>\n

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Relationship is a connection between two souls<\/strong>, and therefore, communication plays a huge role in maintaining the bond and keeping both the souls on the same page of life. It\u2019s not just exchange of words but also an exchange of emotions, feelings, ideas, desires and lot more. It is also a way to ventilate, something that keeps the spirit of a relationship high and positive.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

In a love affair or in an arranged marriage, the courtship and honeymoon are considered to be the golden periods, and the couples are in the lovey-dovey phase but generally somewhere this over a\u00a0flow of love vanishes within a year or so.<\/p>\n

Have you ever wondered why it happens? <\/strong><\/h3>\n

Well, to some extent it\u2019s the decrease in the\u00a0level of verbal communication and sometimes even lack of non-verbal communication<\/strong><\/span> too. We stop expressing our love to each other through the words \u201cI Love you\u201d, which earlier was an hourly affair, now doesn\u2019t even finds its place on occasions such as wedding anniversaries.<\/p>\n

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We assume and make ourselves believe that the other person already knows how much we love them, so why tell?\u00a0But we forget that re-assurance is a need for every human being and expressing not just re-assures but also makes the roots of a relationship stronger. We can\u2019t read each other\u2019s mind, and communication fills in these gaps.<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Talking it out, expressing, ventilation is not the only way to communicate \u2013communication also means listening. Listening is in fact, a very strong branch of communication because it makes the other person feel secure and heard. This gives assurance to your partner that they have someone by their side whenever life is tough on them.<\/p>\n

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Similarly, communication in a relationship<\/strong> doesn\u2019t only mean always romancing with your better-half \u2013 it also means<\/strong> having an open communication about the difficult issues of life, <\/strong><\/em>family and friends or anything which is a reason for trouble in life. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

What is more important than communication is how you plan to communicate or in what way you communicate with each other?<\/p>\n

In this busy world, when you are stuck up with your\u00a09am -5pm\u00a0jobs, you can always choose to go out for a dinner date and have a nice discussion. In this way, you can catch up with each other. What is important is to take out time for each other which will definitely give a new spark to your relationship.<\/p>\n

Here are a few things which you can probably practice on a daily basis to keep the communication going are:<\/strong><\/h2>\n