{"id":25930,"date":"2025-05-05T12:34:08","date_gmt":"2025-05-05T07:04:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/?p=25930"},"modified":"2025-10-06T16:35:02","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T11:05:02","slug":"yd-warrior-jananis-story-of-building-resilience-from-adversity-through-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/2025\/05\/yd-warrior-jananis-story-of-building-resilience-from-adversity-through-therapy.html","title":{"rendered":"Janani&#8217;s Story of Building Resilience from Adversity Through Therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ShikhaliJanani-Headerimage-1024x523.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25931 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/523;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Resilience isn&#8217;t built in a day\u2014it&#8217;s forged in moments of struggle, reflection, and determination. This is what Janani (name changed) experienced after putting the work into therapy and coming out stronger on the other side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A civil engineering graduate from the prestigious SVNIT, Janani, is originally from Ahmedabad. She comes from a small family of four, including her father, mother, and brother, who is seven years younger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a child, Janani was particularly fascinated with skating and spent most of her school years pursuing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, when she reached the 10th standard, she had a tough decision. She wanted to prioritise her academics, too. Skating took a backseat as she focused all her energy on her JEE preparation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Janani remembers being raised by her parents as an independent person. She had to make tough decisions and follow through by herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;Because of incidents at home and the independence that came with a lot of responsibilities, I grew up with a lot of sadness, anger and frustration.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>When working, she experienced a fallout from her relationship with her partner, which left her questioning a lot of things, as well as experiencing a lot of emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;I grew up as a sensitive child, and a lot of hurt and anger from the past was still in my head.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Janani knew she needed to work through the same to improve. Making the transition to therapy was not tough since she had been a passionate advocate of the importance of mental health since her school days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ShikhaliJanani-Insiderimages.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25932 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 800px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 800\/250;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since her college, had a subscription with YourDOST, and they had been receiving regular communications about the platform, she decided to log into the platform and try therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another thing on her mind was the few interviews she had lined up for business school.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since she could not concentrate on all the other things in her life, she wanted to speak to a counselor about navigating these aspects.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After listening to her, her counselor suggested tactics to deal with these problems. She remembers three activities that had the most impact on her morale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One was muscle relaxation, which helped her navigate stressful situations. The second was positive self-talk and affirmations, which helped her navigate situations like exams and interviews.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The third was meditation, which helped her calm her brain when she experienced negative thoughts or doubts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;I believe these methods will also help me in the future; I am very grateful to my counselor for introducing me to these three techniques.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Janani is grateful to her counselor for lending a helpful ear. She also thanks her counselor for her patience during the sessions, which helped Janani arrive at the answers herself. This was a major boost to Janani&#8217;s confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She now rates herself a 4 out of 5 in terms of feeling better. We wish her the best of luck in the journey ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #677373;\"><strong>Janani&#8217;s Warrior Tips:<\/strong><br \/><strong>1.\u201cIt is okay not to have everything figured out.\u201d<\/strong><br \/><strong>2.\u201cSeeking help isn&#8217;t a sign of weakness; it&#8217;s an act of strength. Take it one day at a time.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Are you someone who has gone through a difficult phase and emerged stronger and better, with some professional help? Share your story with us to encourage thousands of others who might be struggling. <\/em><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BecomeAYDWarrior\"><strong><em><a href=\"#\" class=\"click-here-link\">click here<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em> to submit your story.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Resilience isn&#8217;t built in a day\u2014it&#8217;s forged in moments of struggle, reflection, and determination. 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