{"id":23643,"date":"2024-06-28T15:37:52","date_gmt":"2024-06-28T10:07:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/?p=23643"},"modified":"2025-10-06T16:49:18","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T11:19:18","slug":"yd-warrior-kanishks-journey-of-braving-demotivation-and-new-beginnings-with-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/2024\/06\/yd-warrior-kanishks-journey-of-braving-demotivation-and-new-beginnings-with-therapy.html","title":{"rendered":"Kanishk\u2019s Journey of Braving Demotivation and New Beginnings with Therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Kanishk-Headerimage-YDWarriors-1024x523.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-23644 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/523;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cSometimes, the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Tiptoe if you must, but take the step.\u201d &#8211; Naeem Callaway.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In life, there may come situations, in which we may be forced to take a decision. The decision may soon become a turning point in our lives and take us to heights we never imagined. The right decision at the right time is all it takes to rise in our journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meet Kanishk (name changed), a 19-year-old student at the prestigious Shri Ram College of Commerce (SRCC) in Delhi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanishk stayed briefly in Uttar Pradesh when his father was transferred there even though he was born and brought up in Delhi. He shared a close bond with his family while growing up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>&#8220;I have mostly stayed at home from a young age, instead of going out much, which has its trade-offs. I don&#8217;t have many friends outside of my home, however, the proximity of the relationship with my family is quite strong.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanishk\u2019s family consists of his parents, his sister, and himself. He considers himself to be the closest to his mother out of all family members.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;I have been more focused towards academics from childhood. However, I enjoy gaming and a little bit of painting.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanishk first heard about YourDOST from SRCC, which partners with the organization as their official mental health partner. Here, he was matched with Ms. Shreya Angara as his counsellor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>&#8220;My first impression of her was great, honestly and the first session went well. She was very cooperative and understanding. Even after 60 sessions together, she still understands how I perceive things and helps me break down issues analytically to understand the core problem.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanishk began seeking therapy in his first year at SRCC. He had high ambitions when he came to college and wanted to make friends and have fun. However, a triggering incident from a school friend dimmed his confidence levels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Kanishk-Insiderimages.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-23645 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 800px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 800\/250;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;My so-called friend passed a comment, suggesting that I might not be fitting in well at SRCC. That was the trigger incident, and my overthinking tendencies pushed me into a cycle of thoughts.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanishk&#8217;s therapy sessions with Ms Shreya focused on both structural changes and social life issues. Whenever there was a cyclical problem, they discussed ways to change his mindset. For social life problems, they thought of solutions and ways out as he wanted to get better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the techniques his counsellor taught him was to understand changes in others\u2019 behaviour without blaming himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>&#8220;She told me that if someone acted differently, it doesn&#8217;t mean I&#8217;ve done something wrong. 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