{"id":22540,"date":"2024-04-21T20:12:39","date_gmt":"2024-04-21T14:42:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/?p=22540"},"modified":"2025-10-06T16:58:05","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T11:28:05","slug":"the-journey-of-a-warrior-who-fought-his-way-through-the-battle-with-faith-yd-warrior-ritiks-life-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/2024\/04\/the-journey-of-a-warrior-who-fought-his-way-through-the-battle-with-faith-yd-warrior-ritiks-life-story.html","title":{"rendered":"The Journey of a Warrior Who Fought His Way Through The Battle with Faith: Ritik\u2019s Life Story"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Ritik_header-1024x523.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22541 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/523;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Being an introvert or extrovert is purely based on one\u2019s personality, and it is completely fine to be one of the two or even both.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our YD warrior, Ritik (name changed), is an introvert. Hailing from Hyderabad, Ritik is doing his BBA at Mahindra University.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u201cI was a big introvert during my childhood. I was scared to talk and kept overthinking at all times. Hence, I did not have a lot of friends.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritik describes his relationship with his mother as the closest one he ever had. He used to get along well with his cousins and family, but those relationships were not as close. He was attached to his mother till the 10th standard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Ritik_image1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22542 lazyload\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 800px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 800\/250;width:803px;height:auto\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cThe pandemic was my happiest time. I would not have to go out and mingle with anybody and felt relieved.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The happiness was but short-lived. The major wipeout that took the lives of loved ones around the globe struck Ritik\u2019s family as well. He lost his grandfather and was under the grasp of the deadly disease himself. He was as sad at the moment as anyone would have, but fortunately felt better after a few days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Initially, Ritik couldn\u2019t find a course that best suited him after schooling. After a while, he got into Mahindra University for a BBA course. He stepped into a new realm altogether and was mesmerised by the new environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u201cI came down with a fever on the first day of the hostel, owing to a bad start to my college life.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>It is difficult to get used to new surroundings, new beginnings and new routines for everyone. Gradually, one gets a hang of it and starts getting used to it. Not long after, Ritik, too caught up with the routine as everyone else, made some good friends, and got close to his circle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite his efforts to be out of his comfort zone, he still used to hesitate to talk to people and ended up in embarrassing situations.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Ritik_image2.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22543 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 800px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 800\/250;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cDuring a seminar in college, I heard about YourDOST. Initially, I wasn\u2019t confident about therapy, but gradually, I came to understand that it wasn\u2019t as complicated as I thought it might be. It was about opening up and sharing our concerns to find the help we need.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taking help and talking to someone about our concerns is nothing to be ashamed of. Ritik found his counsellor, Ms Kaynat, as his mentor and guided him through his battles. She listened to all his fears and concerns without judgment and provided all the help he needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kaynat shared easy ways to manage Ritik\u2019s emotions and provided tips to control his stage fright.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She held his hand through it all to understand all the levels of grief he experienced. She was the book of perfect solutions for all his questions and helped him evade the dark waters with resilience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone around us has their battles to fight, and not everyone understands the problems we go through. However, our parents and family, who love us the most, can be of massive help during these stormy days.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Ritik_image3.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22544 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 800px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 800\/250;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritik recalls in his childhood, he talked only to his mother, his family and his cousins.<em> \u201cAt home, everyone genuinely cares about you and loves you unconditionally. Nevertheless, in the hostel, everyone pretended to care but were never there when I needed them.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not knowing what to do and feeling confused can be like being stranded on an unknown island. The land is alien, the waters are unknown, and you feel lost in the whirlpool of emotions. Ritik felt no different than this. He felt lost and did not know who to turn to. He even tried being in a relationship, but unfortunately, it did not work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cI was confused and had no control over the whirlwind of emotions I felt. I didn\u2019t know how to balance my emotions, and that scared me to the core.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritik overcame most of his problems with the activities that were shared with him by his therapist. He could understand the core of his emotions and act on them based on that. He also tried the lighthouse technique to conquer his stage fright and passed with flying colours. The breathing exercises shared with him helped get his panic attacks under control as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u201cI got most of my answers and the reasons behind my concerns. At times when I still act up, the support given to me by Kaynat helps me control myself and channel my energy elsewhere.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Ritik_image4.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22545 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 800px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 800\/250;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritik has immense and heartfelt gratitude towards his therapist and the YourDOST platform. He had his share of doubts and hesitations in the initial days but gradually got to experience the positive changes himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritik has come a long way and is confident that he can analyze a situation better than he used to do earlier. He rates himself a golden 4 on 5 n terms of progression, which is just a stepping stone away from a solid 5. We are manifesting this journey to end with perfection.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #677373;\"><strong>Ritik&#8217;s Warrior Tips:<\/strong><br \/><strong>1.\u201cRitik&#8217;s Warrior Tips:1.\u201cJudgements always come and go but never let that impact you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being an introvert or extrovert is purely based on one\u2019s personality, and it is completely fine to be one of the two or even both.&nbsp; Our YD warrior, Ritik (name changed), is an introvert. Hailing from Hyderabad, Ritik is doing his BBA at Mahindra University.\u00a0 \u201cI was a big introvert during my childhood. 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