{"id":18039,"date":"2021-09-15T11:01:53","date_gmt":"2021-09-15T05:31:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/?p=18039"},"modified":"2025-10-15T15:09:53","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T09:39:53","slug":"lakshya-yd-warrior-taking-charge-of-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourdost.com\/blog\/2021\/09\/lakshya-yd-warrior-taking-charge-of-life.html","title":{"rendered":"Lakshya’s Journey of Taking Charge Of His Own Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Taking<\/em><\/p>\n

As rightly said by Edward Sapir, <\/span>\u201cLanguage is the most massive and inclusive art we know, a mountainous and anonymous work of unconscious generations.\u201d<\/i><\/b> – and surely, language is an art not only associated with mere words but the truest psyche behind a human brain. To know a language and the scribbled thoughts is to know the cognition behind the writer. 22-year-old Lakshya Kishor is well aware of this, credits to his sheer love for the Russian language.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

While in class 9, Lakshya reached out to his grandfather with the hopes of learning a new language. Though this was a sudden interest meant to be a temporary admiration, it turned out to be something Lakshya would mark his presence for the years to come! Lakshya is currently pursuing MA in Russian Studies from Jawaharlal Nehru University (JNU). Apart from indulging in cognitive linguistics, Lakshya enjoys playing cricket, reading, and writing poetries too. Despite being a headstrong individual, Lakshya encountered something which changed the trajectory of his life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWhen I was in SY of undergraduate studies, I broke up with my then-girlfriend. Months passed, but my overthinking tendencies did not rest.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Lakshya\u2019s breakup took a toll on his mental and physical health. Having no motivation to work and the sinking feeling kept him up for many nights. Lakshya started having nervous breakdowns and even his family members observed the changes in him. The sudden outbursts, followed by uncontrollable tears had become a routine for Lakshya but he decided to let things take its own course. After ignoring such emotions at first, Lakshya got into another relationship but he could not completely take himself out of the pain of the first breakup.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI started having issues with my girlfriend. She told me that I might be too stuck in the past and the fact that I couldn’t stop overthinking about these led to sleepless nights.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"Lakshya<\/p>\n

Lakshya recalls crying himself to morning, in search of help and guidance to help him get his life back on track. He visited a counselor on JNU campus for a couple of months, and to Lakshya\u2019s surprise, it actually helped him. Almost after a year and a half, Lakshya noticed that he might not have any issues as previous, but still, he faced another breakup. Lakshya was <\/span>back to square one, <\/b>but adamant to take control over his life and thought process.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI let my ex-girlfriend be the orient of my life and when she left, I didn’t know what to do with my life. I was indulged in self-doubt and guilt.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The void created by Lakshya\u2019s ex-girlfriend made a huge impact on him, leaving him with thoughts of denial, overthinking and self-doubt. The bitterness of negative thoughts was reflected in Lakshya\u2019s academics too. Despite scoring astonishingly in college exams, deep down Lakshya was aware that he is unable to perform to his fullest potential. Lakshya even mentioned how <\/span>being reserved and being cut off from the world are two different things<\/b> and the fact that he was always surrounded by negativity, made him a people-pleasing person.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI became a people pleaser eventually. After some time, I started taking charge of things and decided never to let anyone steer my life. I was introduced to YourDOST through my college and so I decided to give counseling another shot.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Lakshya reached out to YourDOST and got connected with an expert, Mr Abrar Raza. Lakshya was anxious, low on motivation but still, he decided to start his counseling journey through a video call session. From the initial session, Lakshya knew he had finally found the place to vent his emotions and feelings.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Like<\/p>\n

\u201cAbrar talks less and asks more. He was very patient and we even started working on developing my personality for the better.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Like many breakups, Lakshya was also left alone without any closure. His desire to seek closure was one of the root causes of his state of denial, but after the sessions, he started accepting the situation as it is.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI realised no matter what I do, the other person will remain the same. Me bearing negative thoughts owing to them, was unnecessary. After Abrar\u2019s suggestions, I even started paying attention to my physical fitness.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Abrar became the beacon of hope for Lakshya, not just for helping him get over the breakup; but to stop Lakshya from remaining in the past. Lakshya\u2019s self-doubt vanished, he was able to do the basic things very efficiently again and even built self-confidence. As a word of gratitude, Lakshya says, \u201c<\/span>Abrar did not just push me, he worked alongside me\u201d<\/span><\/i>. Abrar made Lakshya understand the core of his issues, eventually leading him to believe in himself again. Though Abrar did not engage Lakshya in any techniques or exercises, his words helped Lakshya develop the trust and faith in a counselor he always needed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBreaking the predominant mental health taboo in my head itself was the biggest challenge for me. Through counseling, I see myself becoming a better person.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

It\u2019s okay to feel uncertain and doubt the counseling process, but just like Lakshya, one must trust the process and witness the healing. On a scale of 1 to 5, Lakshya rates himself a solid 4.5 out of 5 in terms of feeling better and urges everyone to seek out help, whenever needed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Lakshya’s\u00a0Warrior Tips:
\n1.\u00a0Your body might heal itself, your mind won’t. Seek out help!
\n2. Taking a leap of faith when it comes to minimising the taboo around mental health and going for counseling – is the change we need today.
\n3. Give your mind a space to grow.
\n4. One should visit a counselor even for 1 or 2 sessions, even if they aren’t going through any major issue. You can grow as an individual.
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Are you someone who has gone through a difficult phase and emerged stronger and better, with some professional help? Share your story with us to encourage thousands of others who might be struggling.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>click here<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/a>\u00a0to submit your story.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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